Photo: Art for Prabhat, Disability India Network |
Within the gamut of violence against women,
one of the things that I find extremely intriguing, at least, in the context of
India ,
is reluctance among organizations and activists to take up issues of sexual
violence against children, especially girls by their family members and sexual
violence against disabled women. Here, I want to bring attention to a general
apathy, and denial around sexual lives of disabled women and sexual violence
against them. References to sexual rights of this population group and their
violations are rarely heard. Discussion and programmes designed to address
violence against women rarely keep this group in view. These groups’ numerical
under-representation in the organizations working on violence against women
could be one of the reasons.
I find that the reluctance also has to do with
this group being a minority – accessing information about the abuses this group
goes through and reaching them with protection and care services would require
some extra efforts which do not seem ‘cost effective’ to many.
The disability movement in India has
focused on political ideas of universal physical access and survival. The issue
of violence against them is not a priority. As a result, public and private
violence against disabled women, especially intellectually challenged women,
has not surfaced as an issue.
Families, most of them, somehow cannot see their
intellectually challenged family members as anything other than a curse and a
liability on the family. It is not surprising then that despite protests by
some women’s activists, institutional violence against disabled women is
sometimes carried out with the support of their family members. Examples of
such collaborations include prevention of (potential) pregnancy by violent
methods like vaginal hysterectomy or uterine hysterectomy.
These actions
are given the name of protection measures. But protection from what – living
with implications of having a sexual life or from implications of sexual
violence like rape? If such measures are a protection from implications of
having a sexual life, shouldn’t one treat these measures as violations of
reproductive rights? And if these measures are being treated as protection from
implications of sexual violence like rape, shouldn’t these measures be considered
as institutional and family ‘approval’ of men’s ‘right’ to rape women?